Cindy Flauger, leader of Family
Services at Goodwill, saw Tanner and his mother last spring at
the awards banquet at Sabre Lanes.
After not having seen them for about eight years, Cindy
was delighted to watch Tanner proudly accept his bowling
trophy—proof that his physical limitations in no way were
stopping him from being a typical kid.
Tanner has truly adopted the
can-do attitude instilled throughout his life by both his
immediate and extended family.
EIS first came into contact
with Tanner when he was about two months old.
He was born with hemophilia B, a genetic disorder that
prevents blood from clotting normally.
Doctors told Tanner’s parents to be vigilant in watching
for any wounds—even bruising—that might signal the need for
immediate infusions to help stop external or internal bleeding.
But then at only five weeks
old, Tanner required a spinal tap to diagnose the cause of a
high fever and respiratory distress.
The procedure resulted in a blood clot that damaged his
spinal cord and left his arms and legs paralyzed.
Although Tanner fully regained the use of his lower
extremities, he will always have limited use of his arms and
hands.
EIS worked with Tanner as he
learned to walk and ride a tricycle and taught him how to do
many things one-handed.
The team also helped the family deal with the reality of
a child with a disability.
Tanner’s parents deserve praise for recognizing that they
needed to foster Tanner’s independence while also protecting his
physical well-being.
Often, it is too easy to become over-protective but at the risk
of not allowing a child to “have wings.”
With a lot of prayer, love,
support and adaptations, Tanner’s family continually proves that
nothing has to stand in his way.